19 Nov

Thankfulness: 7 Years of Marriage

myhusbandOur son made this tie for Father’s Day :-)

7 years of marriage. That’s a milestone for me. As of September 14th, 2014 I have been married to the love of my life and this post is just to share how thankful I am for being married to him.

Marriage has always been God’s plan. Many who read this post don’t believe that and will even say it’s an outdated “institution.” To those people I say, “You are entitled to your opinion but you have no idea what you’re missing!”

I’m not saying that marriage is easy. You need to work at it but if you are willing to do the work, the beauty at the end of the tunnel awaits.  I can honestly say that my husband and I did not always see eye to eye on important matters. We learned to compromise and we also learned how to take a break when tempers begin to flare.

I can’t speak for anybody else’s man but mine is one of a kind and we compliment each other well. He is one of the least lazy men I have ever met! He knows I hate to cook so he does all the cooking. He also gets up every morning to dress, feed and give my son (not his biological) his medication. Not many men would sign up for all of that. Plus, when I’m a little lazy (not often), he pitches in to clean house. OK so he’s a man and doesn’t do a really thorough job but he tries LOL!

Fast forward to our 7th year of marriage and my husband is now adopting OUR son! How coincidental that in the Bible, seven is God’s number of completion? Hmmmm

No long drawn out post or trying to convince you that marriage is great. I just wanted to share that I couldn’t have asked for a better person to spend my life with.  Marriage is sweet and I am very thankful for it.

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12 Nov

Thankfulness: Fly Lady

This post is definitely one out of the ordinary. It’s also a continuation, or rather and expounding on last week’s post sharing the things I’m thankful for this year.

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Overwhelmed & Out of Control

I’m going to get right to it because I really don’t like to drag things out.

For years, I had trouble keeping my home clean. In my previous marriage, I never kept the house clean. It’s a wonder we didn’t split over that.

I would get seriously overwhelmed with all I had to do, the kids, and work that house keeping was on the list of my priorities. I was easily overwhelmed and stressed out and now I see that NOT keeping my home in order, contributed to the chaos and stress (not being able to find thing, being organized and late getting out in the mornings).

Long after my divorce, old habits still died hard. While I would commit weekends to doing a full cleaning within a few days, my home would be a wreck all over again. I couldn’t understand it. So, then my entire weekends were committed to cleaning house. Week after week after week. If I had something I wanted to do, I’d skip the cleaning and then when I got home, I’d be annoyed with things being out of order.

This is the life of a not-born-organizer. Then, I discovered FlyLady.

FlyLady.Net

Fast forward a few years and through a few organizational systems (like Alejandra Costello) and I am so thankful to have found FlyLady.net.

While, born organizers like Alejandra can teach you systems to organize your home and your life, I found them to be way too intensive for me. All the various check sheets (daily, weekly, monthly, quarterly, annually) was just too much. I needed something simple I could stick to…15 minutes a day.

That’s what FlyLady recommends. It doesn’t matter if your home is buried in clutter. If you can commit to something as simple as decluttering 15 minutes a day + developing a morning and night time routine (these usually take 5-10 minutes), your home will be in order and stay in order. The basis of this system is taking baby steps and working in zones. That’s right. You break your home up into zones and you work on keeping those zones clean just 15 minutes a day.

I can not not tell you how much of a bright light went on over my head when I started following FlyLady’s system of cleaning. My home is always in order now and if it gets even a tad bit out of order, I return to my routines and in just a few short minutes, my home is more than company ready. I have purchased some of FlyLady’s cleaning tools as well but I find the Weekly Home Blessing Hour to be the most important to keeping my home in order. I am so thankful for finding this system and I don’t think my life will ever be the same.

As FlyLady says, “I’m flying.”

This post is just one of several in which I will be sharing things I am thankful for this 2014. Stay tuned.

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07 Nov

2014 In Review: What I’m Thankful For

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We are just a couple weeks shy of Thanksgiving Day. I don’t want to wait until then to share what I am thankful for.

2014 was a year of learning and accepting. I discovered things about myself and my abilities as well as things about those closest to me. In spite of some disappointments, I still have much to be thankful for this year. Here’s the short list (I will share the details later)…

I’m thankful for:

  • Receiving a good health report – negative for diabetes
  • My relationship with my husband
  • Getting on track with my finances
  • Discovering what it takes to grow my hair to longer lengths
  • Being in a good place on my job – the flexibility
  • My son’s neurologist and other care givers
  • Getting my home organized
  • Having a home maintenance plan that works

There’s so much much more to be thankful for but these are the things that I have either had challenges or great improvements with this past year, 2014. I will share in future posts more on some of these as we get closer to Thanksgiving Day. Gotta keep it relevant :-). I think it’s important to share how we grow in our relationships and discoveries.

Is there something that you just realized you are thankful for this year?

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